There’s nothing wrong with embracing your curves.

Embrace them.

Love them.

Feel good about them.

But if there’s one thing I am sick of, it’s the women who choose to degrade themselves (and the men who love it).

Ladies, you have more to offer than your big breasts, round hips, and big behinds. Those features don’t define you. Don’t make yourself an object. These women could be using their “fame” to inspire young girls and let them know that their bodies don’t have to be thin in order to be attractive. Yet instead they choose to personify the big booty hoe stereotype which is just as damaging as the “you must be thin” notion.

Deelishis, you have a nice voice, and the song has a catchy beat, but that’s overshadowed by your behind.

Is this what we want to teach our daughters?

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