Comments on: I Am Not Hating http://www.acurvydiva.com/2008/05/07/i-am-not-hating/ Women With Curves Unite Fri, 10 Sep 2010 00:15:56 +0000 hourly 1 By: 1stopmom http://www.acurvydiva.com/2008/05/07/i-am-not-hating/comment-page-1/#comment-315 1stopmom Tue, 03 Jun 2008 05:18:21 +0000 http://www.acurvydiva.com/2008/05/07/i-am-not-hating/#comment-315 I went to read your other post and the picture is deegusting! I agree that on the show she did carry herself with a lot of class, but ever since she has shown too much a***. I am so sick of seeing it all over. The sad thing is it seems like a majority of the women on Flavor of Love 1,2, and 3 are doing the same thing. What I can't believe is that they have no problem putting it all on display like that. Thanks for letting me vent. I went to read your other post and the picture is deegusting! I agree that on the show she did carry herself with a lot of class, but ever since she has shown too much a***. I am so sick of seeing it all over. The sad thing is it seems like a majority of the women on Flavor of Love 1,2, and 3 are doing the same thing. What I can’t believe is that they have no problem putting it all on display like that. Thanks for letting me vent.

]]> By: ChaeChae http://www.acurvydiva.com/2008/05/07/i-am-not-hating/comment-page-1/#comment-226 ChaeChae Thu, 08 May 2008 13:42:13 +0000 http://www.acurvydiva.com/2008/05/07/i-am-not-hating/#comment-226 "A woman is worth more than her sex appeal" Profound quote - it goes back to the same thing about thinkin that oozing sex appeal - is power...because people "admire" you...men stare women stare you're noticed. Sometimes as a curvy woman with low self esteem you do everything to look slimmer and or fade into the background..and when one person says ..Oh wow - you look great... you wear that outfit til all the colour is washed out of it. I think alot of people mix attention with power or admiration - when there is such thing as bad attention... But as your other post regarding Jill Scott highlights - sex isnt admirable...its still trash if its out there in the public domain and "flashin your trash" as it were. “A woman is worth more than her sex appeal” Profound quote - it goes back to the same thing about thinkin that oozing sex appeal - is power…because people “admire” you…men stare women stare you’re noticed.

Sometimes as a curvy woman with low self esteem you do everything to look slimmer and or fade into the background..and when one person says ..Oh wow - you look great… you wear that outfit til all the colour is washed out of it.

I think alot of people mix attention with power or admiration - when there is such thing as bad attention…

But as your other post regarding Jill Scott highlights - sex isnt admirable…its still trash if its out there in the public domain and “flashin your trash” as it were.

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